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Psychic Control of Others PART 2: Energy and Energy Transference After DeathControlling Others PART 2: An interview with Alex Telman
We have talked about controlling behaviors in relationships and sex. Is this controlling behavior by individuals evident after death? When we make our transition from the physical world into the spirit realms, the Soul may retain the ego self where the individual has fiercely chosen to continue experiencing the egotistical aspects of its human nature. In such a case the Soul will retain any unresolved negative patterns of behaviour (energetic control behaviours) into the realm of spirit. I have read your Interview, “Between Life and Death” where you talk about younger Souls in particular being ‘rehabilitated’ when they return to the spirit realm. They obviously find it harder to let go of their physical human experiences; but do all Souls have memory of their human life experiences? Yes, because we come into the physical realm to learn lessons.
So when we return to the spirit realm as Souls we retain within
us, energetically, every belief system, attitude and thought process
that makes up who we are and our consciousness. These beliefs may
be based upon the limitations we have allowed the egotistical self
to place upon us whilst in the physical world. If the control behaviour
was extremely intense and unrecognised, our level of spirituality
and awareness will be limited, inconsequential or non-existent.
This spiritual lack will more strongly align us with the beliefs
and limitations of the ego self. In this state, we will be more
inclined to disregard any revelation from the Source. Indeed. Souls can be damaged. After all, they are not perfect. They are working through an eternity of lifetimes towards perfection, towards a return to the Source, but they are not created perfect. And they can be harmed as a result of their Earthbound, ego, experiences. In the ‘physical realm’ as you call it, what is the ego’s greatest fear? The ego's greatest fear is death. It believes there is only one life and that death means annihilation. Therefore, it tells us to be greedy, "gluttons"! Get as much as you can, share nothing, give them nothing, take them nowhere, otherwise you will miss out or be ripped off! Do this at any cost so that you can feel bad or wrong! The ego self has you in its grip. The vicious cycle revolves … round and round you go in the ego's world of madness, illusion and distortion! So what is the Soul’s role vis a vis the ego? The Soul’s job is to overcome the Earthly needs of the ego. That battleground is the learning experience for the Soul on Earth. How can we help the Soul to overcome the power of the ego? And I guess a related question is, how can we help the Soul to a smoother transition through death into the spirit realm? Yes, those questions are closely related. We all suffer varying degrees of the ego's torment. In other words, we all have lessons to learn. That is why we are here, on Earth. However, those who are willing to acknowledge their spiritual and divine state of knowing will find the death, and the life, process a peaceful and all loving experience. Any fear will be less consuming and our state of mind will be more accepting. This allows us to be gently guided by the Source, or God, to an all loving state of existence. Some have called this ‘God consciousness’. Adversely, the individual suffering from the torments of the ego and a complete disassociation or disconnection from their spirituality, their spiritual reality, will, at the time of their death, feel very apprehensive and uncertain. These feelings of apprehension and uncertainty will impact upon the individual's transition from the physical world into the spirit realm. As their awareness of the Source, or God self, heightens with the discardment of the physical body, the mind slips between states of illusionary distortion and God consciousness (reality). The individual can become very confused and disorientated about who they really are and what they are choosing to experience. The Source always allows the individual its choice. The choice is; to remain in a state of illusion and denial or to reintegrate with the Source, or God consciousness, and accept spiritual reality. What is the effect of submitting oneself to one’s ego? If a person chooses to submit to the ego self through fear, they will endure an estranged and solitary battle with themselves as they endeavour to realign themselves in a new state of existence. As they resist alignment with the God self, they accept the fear of their separated state of mind. So these people feel ‘separated’ from the spirit realm? Yes, in this state of mind, the individual will be immediately transferred to a new yet foreign place within the unseen which is in harmony with the energetic configuration of their retained ego personality. They will view this new landscape with perplexity and bewilderment, wondering "How did I get here? What is happening? How do I get home?" They have become "lost" in the lower astral realms that reside closely around the physical world. The lower astral realm is a denser dimension of the spirit world that is energetically similar to the physical world. It is the mirror image of the physical world in spirit form. These lower astral realms have been created by those who have chosen to retain the ego after physical death and continue to believe completely in the authenticity of their egotistical needs and fears. We created the physical world through our ego selves to support our beliefs in separation from God. Therefore, the lower astral realms are the continuation of our separatist beliefs extending into the afterlife with us at death. Both the physical world and the lower astral realms were created from a perceived need to survive. The ego's need to survive! The ego fears death as the end, therefore, it cannot retain its authenticity if we choose to reintegrate with the Source. Can a soul once it has passed over to the Spirit realm refuse to let go of its earth ego? Yes. This does not happen often and as you pointed out, to varying degrees many younger Souls find it difficult to let go of their Earthly emotional experiences. But they are, of course, counseled, supported and loved in the Spirit realm. What happens to a Soul that refuses to let go of its earth ego? A soul who has retained its ego will transfer to the lower astral realms in denial of the physical death that has transpired. The ego has not accepted the Soul's choice to exit the physical world and has thus held captive the consciousness of the individual by creating illusionary distortion within their mind. So the ego can control the Soul? Yes, in the sense that a strong negative, fear based ego can ‘trap’ the Soul. When does this separation occur? This distortion happens of course during the life of the physical human being, but is felt most significantly in the moments preceding physical death. This will comprise of vivid memories of the physical world, deep fears concerning the process of physical death and a deep longing to remain within the physical world. As this distorted illusion becomes a solid creation of the imagination, the ego has victoriously camouflaged the individual's consciousness from the God self and its guidance. However, the ego self cannot completely conceal the God self from the individual. There will be a moment where, regardless of the ego's subterfuges, the divinity of the God self and the illusion of the ego self will become very apparent in the mind of the individual. This gives the individual ample opportunity to make a very clear and consciousness choice of alignment. Fear and the strength of their attachment to the physical world will be the deciding factor in the individual's choice. If the individual decides to align with the physical world, the ego, does that Soul then remain on Earth or does it cross over to the realm of spirit? Most Souls cross over. Very few don’t. But those Souls who too strongly align with the ego do not cross over. We call these ‘Ghosts’ when they do not cross over but remain in a geographical place, and ‘lost Souls’ when they do not cross over but attach themselves to a person. What is the process by which a Soul does not cross over to the realm of spirit? Where the individual has made a choice to align with the ego self, the God self will allow the experience of the ego to continue only if it serves the Soul's learning experience. The ego will thus believe that it has survived the death process and is in fact still in existence. The God self will allow the experience of denial, knowing that the individual will eventually become dis-illusioned and seek the reestablishment of divine identity and reality. So lost Souls are allowed to remain on Earth? Yes. As a learning experience. But most Souls learn very quickly that they do not belong here and wish to return to the spirit realm. How do those Souls return to the spirit realm? That is a difficult question. In my practice I cross over many, many lost Souls. Most people, perhaps 80 percent, have some attachment to them. In terms of recall from within the spirit realm, the lost, or disillusioned Soul will have loved ones and spirit guides seeking to provide awareness, reassurance and assistance. This provides a sense of security to the disillusioned Soul who is persuaded to relinquish the ego and all fears associated with it. Once this takes place, the Soul will surrender and acknowledge its divine identity. As the disillusioned Soul accepts and surrenders to this awareness, they will begin to reunify and lovingly reintegrate themselves to an appropriate level of God consciousness within the spirit realm. This level of God consciousness will support, counsel and love who they. This process of reunification and reintegration can be an extremely difficult proposition for those residing in the very low astral realms. These denser realms are built upon a foundation of shared belief systems and denials that are exclusively ego based. If an individual believes they are not physically dead, they will create a reality that supports this illusion. Thoughts that manifest from the egotistical mind will create realities based in separation, limitation and distortion. I cross over many of these Souls, and most give me a hard time. But they all go. They ‘all’ cross over? Yes. Eventually. Tell me about the most difficult Souls. Those who decide definitely that they do not want to cross over. Well I must point out that these Souls are a tiny minority. I call these Souls, Deluded Souls. Deluded Souls are those who have chosen to remain devoted to the illusionary world of the ego. Those with parallel belief systems and needs will be naturally drawn together to co-create an illusionary environment that gives them a sense of security, familiarity and purpose. The more deluded Souls congregated together, the greater the group consciousness. Where a group consciousness exists, any creative manifestation producing an environment will have far more authenticity and reality to the souls therein. In this illusionary environment, the deluded Souls will attempt to relive their physical experiences, utilising their learnt control behaviours whilst interacting with each other. Simply, they will mimic and recreate behavioural response that was automatic to their personalities while they were existing within the physical world. So a deluded Soul creates its reality based on their negative behaviors as human beings? Yes, deluded Souls lost in the experience of the lower astral realms will create their reality based upon their thought processes and the emotions they attach to them. As Ghosts they can be very violent, as spirit attachments they can exhibit as addictive, violent, obsessive or ‘evil’ personalities. They infest people with low energy levels and, as the deluded Soul’s reality is based on thought reality, as they infest their new host each and every thought they produce will manifest an instantaneous negative reality. Depending upon the frequency and changeability of their thoughts, their realities will syncronise into a stream of never ending scenarios that will either further confuse or depress both the new human host and ‘its’ Soul. What you are saying then is that a deluded lost Soul that attaches to a person has a negative impact on both that person and their Soul? Exactly! For how long can a deluded Soul stay deluded? The deluded Soul may remain in the lower astral for a long and unspecified period of time. When we refer to time, we are quantifying ourselves by measuring through relative or linear time. However, remember that time does not exist for the deluded Soul who resides in the lower astral realms, nor is time of the essence. Even if the deluded Soul has been residing in the lower astral realms, by our standards, for a hundred years, to their consciousness, only a moment has passed. The importance is only that the deluded Soul comes to a natural willingness to progress and evolve beyond the illusionary environment created by their false needs and beliefs. Therefore, every Soul will eventually find their way home! At what point does a deluded Soul realize it is ready to go home? I mean, is there a ‘process’ by which the deluded Soul can realize it is time to go back to the realm of Spirit? An awakening process can only occur when a deluded Soul in the lower astral realms experiences a genuine willingness to resolve. If their willingness induces surrender, the deluded soul will naturally enter into a state of interconnectedness and begin to feel the pure, unconditional love of the Source, or God, within them and around them. This aligns the deluded Soul immediately with God consciousness. Through this state of interconnectedness, the ego self will have been sufficiently relinquished and the Soul can now raise it's consciousness from these lower realms. Until this process takes place, the deluded Soul will remain in these lower realms of spirit. Many deluded Souls retain a firm and uncompromising belief that they are still existing within the physical world. The power of their thoughts and beliefs will actually create the reality they yearn to experience. Therefore, they will have the potential to create a presence of themselves in the physical world. Those who have experienced the environment of a "haunted house" will attest to the sensation of being watched or of "feeling a presence" within a room. This is simply the projection of a deluded Soul's presence extended into the physical world as a consequence of their concentrated mental focus. Can you explain the notion of deluded Soul becoming a Ghost, more specifically? Of course. Imagine yourself in the predicament of the deluded Soul. You would find yourself in a world that is multi-dimensional where you will be able to see the physical world and the energetic composition of all things. Everything in our world is made up of atoms and energy that moves and vibrates at rates and frequencies that people cannot see with their physical sight. A deluded Soul experiencing the lower astral realms and mentally projecting into the physical world simultaneously will be able to see beyond the limitation of physical sight. They will experience the overlapping environments as a swirling, vibrating vista of colour and movement. Depending upon the mental determination and desire of the deluded Soul, focus can be directed solely upon the physical environment. When this occurs, the overlapping illusion of the lower astral realms will fade out of consciousness and the deluded Soul will thus be able to disassociate from this illusionary environment. Once the physical world is established in the deluded Soul's consciousness as a chosen reality, it will begin to view and experience the familiarity of a life once lived. The mere fact that they have reinvented themselves in the physical world is sometimes enough to satisfy their egos. These deluded Souls will tend to congregate in what appears to us as haunted houses and environments. However, where an ego is not satisfied or content with this limited experience, it will seek to reinvent itself through the personification of its presence. What, then, is the process by which a deluded Soul finds a body to attach itself to? Personification is the method the ego uses to identify itself through the ego based personality and feelings of another person. Deluded Souls employ personification as a way of reinventing themselves in a physical and tangible form. The deluded Soul will seek out a physical human individual that appears to represent the desired image of how they choose to conceive themselves. This will be the deciding factor in a deluded Soul's choice to project its presence and personify itself through a physical individual. How does the deluded Soul ‘join’ a target human being? The egoistic aspect of the deluded Soul will attempt to integrate with the egoistical aspect of the physical individual. This allows a complimentary connection to occur between them. The deluded Soul will connect with the physical individual within the tightly compressed layers of the ego self surrounding the physical body. This area of the individual's energetic composition will be denser and vibrating at a much slower capacity. The deluded Soul will identify more strongly with these energetic ego based layers. The first layer of energy around the physical body is referred to as the etheric body. This is the energetic blueprint of the physical body and will be dense and slow in energy movement like its physical counterpart. This energetic substance contains all the physiological and sensorial mechanisms of the physical body, and is the gateway between the spirit and the physical realms. The deluded Soul can more easily identify and focus upon this area without confusion and disorientation. It will intuitively want to reach out and connect with this clearer sense of reality, where it feels it may be able to gather or bring together a sense of its own presence. The energetic layers of the ego self will comprise of the beliefs, needs and emotions of the physical individual. These subsequent layers connect to the etheric body. The deluded Soul will, through mental focus upon these layers, perceive within their own consciousness a sense of the emotional state and sensations of the physical person at the egoistical level. The deluded Soul will be attracted to this individual if there is an egoistical compatibility between them. They will identify through similar needs, wants and beliefs that allow the deluded Soul to feel a sense of stability and reassurance. Once a deluded Soul has identified a ‘suitable’ host, what happens next? Once the deluded Soul has connected to an appropriate physical counterpart, their ego will attempt to blend and amalgamate with the ego of the physical person. This further deludes the Soul into believing that they are experiencing themselves in a physical form. Once the deluded Soul has amalgamated egoistically with the physical person, the two egos will begin to compete for control and domination over the mind. The mind creates through thought. Thought creates experiences felt by the physical body. The ego of the deluded Soul perceives this as realising a physical life. And the new host’s Soul is also deluded? Perhaps deluded is not an appropriate term here. The new host’s Soul can be ‘overcome’; confused or controlled, especially if it is a younger, less experienced Soul. What does the person, the new host, experience whilst the deluded Soul, the host’s ego and the host’s Soul battle for control? Whilst the two egos are competing for control and domination of the mind, the physical person may experience heaviness, physical trembling, nausea, headaches, constricted breathing, extreme energetic weariness and weakness- not to mention depression and new addictive or obsessive behaviors. These symptoms will manifest immediately once competition is in play and may intensify as the deluded Soul tries, and succeeds, to implement its own control behaviour. Over a period of time, the physical person will slowly but steadily begin to feel a constant depletion of energy, finding they are lacking focus and concentration. They may experience irregular patterns of sleep ranging from insomnia to deep comma like sleep, delusions, hysteria, emotions or in extreme cases display erratic behaviour, describing a feeling of "someone else" inside of them. They may recount incidences of hearing voices or unwanted thoughts trying to force them to act out behaviour and activities that would usually be unacceptable to the morals or belief systems of the living person. They may also experience the symptoms of the deceased person's mode of death. If the deluded Soul died of a massive heart attack, the living counterpart may experience the developing symptoms of a heart condition. This will affect the heart of the physical body as the mind dominated by the deluded Soul recreates a heart condition that may re-manifest to the stages of attack. Any form of prescribed sedatives or anti-depressants will only serve to energetically suppress and deplete the person further, giving greater advantage to a deluded Soul who has personified itself through the mind of the physical person. Why exactly does the deluded Soul need a human body to attach itself to? The deluded Soul needs the life force energy of the physical person to inflate and energize their own ego in order to override and defeat the ego of the physical person into submission. This allows them to feel an element of self gratification and control once again, making their efforts seem very worthwhile. The consistent energetic drain of the physical counterpart's vitality further lowers their defenses. This removes any form of resistance, thereby securing the deluded Soul's level of mind control over the physical person. So control is the goal of the deluded Soul? Yes, and once domination and control of the mind has been secured, the deluded Soul has complete access to the physical person's conscious mind and the emotions that will manifest from their thinking. The deluded Soul will naturally project their beliefs through their control behaviour to the mind of the living counterpart. The advent of these subtle and implanted thoughts will begin to prompt or activate the conscious mind of the living individual to perform, seek out or re-enact those very things that brought comfort and personal gratification to the deluded Soul prior to their own physical death. The deluded soul may still carry a burning need to reacquaint itself with the sensations of the earthly pleasures. In it's recollections of the past, the deluded Soul may begin to crave for the taste of alcohol, the slow and satisfying drag of a burning cigarette, the excitement of dancing, the high of a drug hit or the euphoria of lust and sexual orgasm. Simply, whatever condition or behaviour held meaning and pleasure for it prior to physical death! The ego of the deluded Soul will be able to perceive experientially through domination of the physical person's mind. It will have experienced the sensations it attached to these pleasures in its former physical life. However, it will never be completely fulfilled by these temporary sensations and will be always seeking to assert more control. Does everyone have the potential to be so controlled by a deluded Soul? Not everyone. Domination by a deluded soul can only occur where the living individual has a reduced sense of self or feels detached from self. These individuals experience the world as a harsh, unloving and volatile place to exist within and yearn to be released from the bondages they perceive around them. They will have an attitude of helplessness and victimization, blaming or condemning external sources and people for their circumstances and perceived suffering. Disheartenment, emptiness, loneliness and hopelessness will dominate their thinking, inducing feelings of isolation and separation. How, then, can a person distinguish between their real personality and the deluded Soul? This can be initially identified by distinct and adverse changeability in behaviour and personality. When the possession takes stronger hold and as the living individual is subjugated more completely, the egoistical personality of the deluded Soul will begin to manifest and become more dominant. Their behaviour or responses to others will vary in extremities from aggressive/domineering to passive/withdrawn. The appearance or expression of their face may seem different or changed and their body weight may fluctuate inconsistently. In the most extreme cases, they begin to speak in a different calibre of voice utilising language and expressions that are inconsistent with previously established behavior. Can these behavior changes be related to mental illness? Many mental illnesses and psychological disorders can be attributed to possession and the domination of the conscious mind. In many cases, individuals suffering from the symptoms of these disorders are the victims of discarnate energies such as deluded Souls or demonic entities. Schizophrenia is a disorder that pertains to the incidence of deluded Souls gathering around an individual. In some cases, a living individual can experience the personification of multiple deluded Souls subjugating and fighting for domination of the conscious mind. Schizophrenics characteristically complain of hearing voices and tend to feel that many others are controlling or impinging upon their minds. It is common to hear schizophrenics refer to conspiracies against them where they believe "someone or others are out to get me". They can display erratic and uncharacteristic behaviour that tends from extreme aggression or violence to the withdrawn and passive individual who is extremely fearful of any type of interaction. They have intense feelings of worthlessness or lack completely any sense of self love. They will view their disorder as a punishment or persecution. What can one do about a deluded Soul- in terms of getting them out of a physical body? Deluded souls caught in the illusionary boundaries of the physical world and the lower astral realms can be identified, assisted and encouraged into the relinquishment of their ego self. This can only achieved by a skilled medium with psychic ability who has experience in the "rescue" process. Do you do this kind of work? Yes. Every day. What, then, does this ‘rescue’ process involve? The rescue process involves accessing the deluded Soul through our Soul network of interconnectedness. These natural connections between all of us, allow telepathic communication to occur between the medium and the deluded Soul. The medium will endeavour to telepathically reassure and comfort the deluded Soul, thereby reducing any fear, suspicion or anger they may display upon discovery. The transfer of loving and healing energy from the medium to both the deluded Soul, and the living individual and their Soul, where possession has manifested, should also occur to create an atmosphere of reassurance and trust. The medium makes the deluded Soul aware of the transitory process involved in crossing over and the continued and meaningful existence the deluded Soul will experience beyond the physical world; emphasizing there will be no punishment, only loving counseling. This assists the deluded Soul to forgo the illusions they have experienced through the ego. At all times there is contact with loved ones who have crossed over to bring validation, proof and comfort to the deluded Soul. When this occurs, the deluded Soul will find the transitory process more acceptable within its understanding. This transitory process serves the higher purpose of the Soul and brings divine revelation of our infinite reality to all those individuals involved. So you explain and show the deluded Soul what it is missing out on by not crossing over? In a nutshell, yes. The higher purpose of the soul is to realize, know and experience its divine nature in context to itself and the Source. Our divine nature is eternal and infinite. A Soul deluded by the egoistical nature will believe it is impermanent and limited. The divine revelation for the deluded Soul rests in their transition to the spirit realm from the physical world intact as a distinct consciousness that continues to create experiences of its own free will and choosing. While the Soul has seemingly "left" the physical life, it continues to exist energetically, evolving to awareness towards reintegration with God consciousness. Its continued existence in another plane of existence, is God self creating further opportunities to realize and accept the true nature of its essence. This is so for both a deluded Soul and for those who come into contact or relationship with them within the physical world. We all have our own pathway that leads back to the Source, to God! We are all free to choose the course of that pathway in relationship to the experiences that will bring us the most profound realization that we are all one as God and, in our unity, we are the infinite and eternal essence of love.
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