Get Excited About Your Life!
by Dr. Annette Colby, RD
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Have you seen the motivational plaque that reads, “Life
is a do-it-yourself project. Get excited about it!”
I love that expression because it reminds me that it’s up
to me to make each day special. That doesn’t mean that each
moment of every day is going to be wonderfully smooth, uneventful,
and happy. But it does mean that it is up to me to take action each
day to make sure I’m excited about being in a body and about
being alive.
If you’re not as excited about your life as you want to be,
take comfort in knowing that increasing the joy in your is something
that you can actually take control of. Becoming inspired, energized,
and fully engaged in your life is definitely possible! Gaining excitement
isn’t so much about working to “fix” yourself
as it is learning new skills of acceptance, emotional flow, and
focusing your efforts on activities that have personal meaning.
There are numerous actions that support your ability to achieve
a higher level of excitement about your own life. Below are several
powerful places to begin:
1. Stop the Drama
Excitement about your life emerges as you gain a deeper capacity
to accept things as they are right now. Often times when things
get rough, it is easy to fall into the worry trap, worrying about
the issue, picking at the problem, and conjuring up the worst-case
scenario. Intense focus on the problem accelerates negative emotions
and stirs up even more chaos.
Acceptance of the situation allows you to stop flailing about and
see the situation in a new light. Life is an ever-changing flow
of moving, breathing, suffering, and hoping. It includes sorrows
and dreams, and the mystery of things actually working out for the
best. You’re not having a particular challenge because you
are bad, wrong, or being punished. Instead, you can look at the
situation and bring compassion to yourself. Discover if there is
something to gain from the experience. Often, a difficult challenge
also has within it a transformative power that can assist you in
creating a more fully developed life.
2. Emotional Flow
Obviously, life is not about the absence of emotions. Therefore,
allowing yourself to be excited about being alive involves an understanding
that joy and sorrow are not a mutually exclusive proposition. Both
are possible, and both can occur simultaneously. With this new definition
of wholeness, your life journey is no longer about attempting to
abolish difficult emotions, but learning new strategies to recognize,
accept, and allow emotional flow.
Emotions have energy, and big emotions have big energy. A key to
emotional flow requires learning to accept emotions as they occur
while also attaining the ability to stand back and let the emotional
energy move on through. I will be the first to admit this is tricky
business. It’s so easy to wan to resist uncomfortable emotions,
suppress them, or get all tangled up in them. Mastering emotional
flow means doing what we least want to do – accept emotions,
stand behind a short wall, breathe, and let them flow.
3. Breathe
Conscious breathing is a vital ingredient in the recipe of an exciting
life. Breath instantly lifts your spirits and clears your mind of
negative thoughts and tension. Breath keeps energy moving. In addition,
breath is the choice you make to be alive, to be you, and to be
connected to your wisdom. Decide to breathe consciously throughout
the day. Several times each hour take several deep, fulfilling breaths,
that invigorates you body and rids your body of accumulated heaviness.
4. Practice Optimism
Optimism feels more excited about being alive! If you are not currently
an optimistic person, don't worry – optimism can be learned.
After all if the glass is half-empty, then it’s also already
half-full. You can teach yourself to see the other side, despite
the little setbacks, small adversities, disappointments, frustrations,
and letdowns in your everyday experiences. Here are several optimistic
thoughts to practice:
-Things didn't go well today, but there's a lot to be learned from
this experience.
-Somehow everything is going to work out for the best.
-There is a future, and you will get through this emotion, situation,
or experience.
-Be a friend to yourself when you need it most.
-When life is especially difficult, remember that life happens even
to 'good' people.
-Understand that you are part of something bigger.
5. Choose Joy
A starting point to allow a deeper connection to excitement about
your own life is to make a conscious decision that you are tired
of “working” on your life and “working”
on your problems. Decide you want to feel good right now. Then,
get busy making simple choices that allow you to feel good about
yourself today. For example:
-Appreciate the love and beauty already in your life.
-Always keep your word to yourself.
-Value your own efforts.
-Instead of focusing on problems, envision solutions.
-Practice self-supportive thoughts.
-Lighten up and don't take yourself so seriously.
-Schedule time every day for relaxation.
-Learn to breathe consciously and deeply.
6. Follow Your Bliss
Over twenty years ago the great American mystic Joseph
Campbell told us that the secret of life was to “Follow Your
Bliss.” Turns out, he was right. Follow your instincts and
choose actions that make you happy – both now and in the long-run.
For example, if you’re feeling low and you choose sugary sweet
comfort foods to lift your spirits, you may feel good now, but you
won’t be feeling so good a little while from now. Following
your bliss means looking inside and choosing an action or activity
that allows you to feel more alive. Alive with no regrets or undesirable
consequences. Choose to spend your time and energy on activities
that create a fuller, richer life for yourself.
Excitement is something we choose. It’s something we set
forth as a possibility, and then look for ways to making it happen.
This is your life. Is today the day you purposefully get excited
about exploring, discovering, and creating?
Author's Bio
Dr. Annette Colby, RD can help you take the pain out of life, turn
difficult emotions into joy, release stress, end emotional eating,
and move beyond depression into an extraordinary life! Annette is
the author of Your Highest Potential and has the unique ability
to show you how to spark an amazing relationship with your life!
Visit http://www.AnnetteColby.com
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